Community Guidelines
Welcome to You and Me’s online dating community! We want You and Me to be a fun, safe, and inclusive space for all adults seeking real connections. By using our app, you agree to follow these guidelines. Please review them carefully — serious or repeated violations may lead to warnings, account suspension, or permanent bans help.hinge.co Below are the key principles for responsible use of the You and Me dating app:
Respect Personal Boundaries and Consent
No nudity or explicit profile content: Profile photos and bios should not include nude or overtly sexual images bumble.com You and Me is for genuine connections, not explicit showcases. Any sexual content should only be shared privately and with mutual consent. Always ensure the other person is comfortable; unwanted lewd messages or images are not allowed help.hinge.co, bumble.com
Consent is critical: Never pressure or coerce anyone. Unwanted sexual advances, harassment, or any form of non-consensual behavior is strictly prohibited help.hinge.co Respect each user’s comfort level at all times.
Protect Your Privacy and Personal Information
Share cautiously: Don’t post personal identifiers on your profile. Avoid listing your full name, home address, workplace, daily routine, or details about children esafety.gov.au rainn.org These details can put you at risk. Choose a discreet username (not your real name or exact location) rainn.org , and keep your contact info (phone number, email, or social media handles) private.
Guard against scams: Never send money or sensitive financial information (bank accounts, credit card numbers, etc.) to anyone you meet through the app rainn.org If someone you meet online asks for money, it’s likely a scam — report that profile or message to us immediately rainn.org Similarly, linking your dating profile to your other social media accounts is strongly discouraged, as it can expose your private information to strangers esafety.gov.au rainn.org
Maintain Appropriate Content
No violent or graphic content: You and Me has zero tolerance for violence. Do not post images or descriptions of gore, abuse, weapons, or cruelty help.hinge.co Content that celebrates or depicts violence, self-harm, suicide, or extreme cruelty is strictly forbidden help.hinge.co
No hate or discriminatory content: We embrace diversity. Hate speech, slurs, or derogatory comments targeting a person or group based on race, ethnicity, gender, religion, sexual orientation, disability, or any protected characteristic are absolutely not allowed help.hinge.co Be kind and inclusive in all conversations.
No bullying or harassment: Treat everyone with respect and empathy. Do not harass, intimidate, threaten, or stalk other users help.hinge.co help.hinge.co Repeated unwanted messages, degrading remarks, or any form of emotional abuse will lead to penalties help.hinge.co If a match unlikes or unmatches you, accept it gracefully — do not try to contact them elsewhere or pressure them to respond.
Focus on Genuine Connections (No Commercial Use)
Personal, not promotional: You and Me is designed for personal dating and social connections, not for advertising or campaigning. Do not use the app to sell products, solicit services, fundraise, or promote your business or social media channels help.hinge.co Sending unsolicited links, spam, or promotional material to other members is not allowed help.hinge.co
No paid dating or escort services: Offering or seeking paid companionship, escort services, or “sugar” relationships on You and Me is strictly prohibited help.hinge.co This platform is for genuine relationships, not transactional arrangements.
Be Your Real Self (Authenticity)
Use your own profile: Only one person should use each account. Do not share your account with others, and do not create multiple profiles for yourself help.hinge.co Impersonating someone else or pretending to be a different person (catfishing) is banned help.hinge.co
Accurate photos and info: Your profile must reflect who you truly are. Upload real, recent photos that clearly show your face help.hinge.co Do not use fake, stolen, or outdated pictures. Be honest about your age, gender, and other personal details. Lying about your identity or intentions violates our rules and undermines trust help.hinge.co
Communicate Respectfully
Mind your language: Use polite, respectful language at all times. Avoid rude comments or personal attacks. Treat matches the way you’d like to be treated.
No hatred or slurs: Never use slurs, insults, or exclusionary remarks based on someone’s identity. This includes any negative comments about race, religion, nationality, gender, sexuality, body type, health, or other personal attributes help.hinge.co If you disagree with someone’s views, simply skip or unmatch without antagonism.
No threats or violence: Never threaten or encourage harm toward anyone. Any content calling for violence or physical harm is strictly forbidden help.hinge.co help.hinge.co
Adults Only and Follow the Law
18+ requirement: You must be at least 18 years old to use You and Me help.hinge.co If you are under 18 or if we find evidence of a minor using the app, the account will be terminated. Likewise, do not upload any photos or content featuring children. This app is strictly for adults.
Obey legal rules: You and Me does not tolerate illegal activities help.hinge.co Do not use the app to buy, sell, or solicit any illegal goods or services (drugs, weapons, stolen property, etc.) help.hinge.co Exploiting others or encouraging criminal acts (especially involving minors or trafficking) is strictly prohibited help.hinge.co
Use Only Your Own Content
Respect copyrights and privacy: Only share photos, videos, and messages that you created or have permission to use. Posting copyrighted music, movies, text, or other protected content without the owner’s consent is not allowed. Similarly, do not share screenshots or messages from other users without their permission. Respect others’ privacy and intellectual property rights at all times.
Do Not Abuse the Platform
No scams or fraud: Any attempt to defraud or manipulate other users is forbidden help.hinge.co Do not use false identities to trick people, and never ask for money or personal favors under false pretenses. If someone tries to lure you into a scam, report them immediately.
No spam, fake profiles, or bots: We prohibit bulk messaging, spamming, or using automated tools/bots to gain matches. Creating multiple profiles or using “unlock” hacks is not allowed help.hinge.co Honest, one-to-one use of the app is required. Repeatedly contacting the same person after being told “no” or filing false reports will also violate these rules help.hinge.co
Be truthful: Always provide accurate information on your profile. Fabricating details or spreading misinformation undermines trust. If you encounter technical issues or need help, treat our support staff with respect.
Stay Active
Log in regularly: To maintain an active presence, log into your You and Me account from time to time. Accounts that have been inactive for two years or more may be deleted to make room for active members. Staying engaged (checking messages and updating your profile) also keeps your matches fresh.
Help Keep Our Community Safe
Speak up: If you see someone violating these guidelines or behaving harmfully, please report it. You can report any profile, message, or content through the in-app report feature help.hinge.co Your report is confidential and helps us take action to protect the community. You are not alone – our team reviews reports carefully and can provide resources or support if needed help.hinge.co
Consequences: We take these rules seriously to ensure everyone’s safety. Violations can result in warnings, temporary suspensions, or permanent bans help.hinge.co By reporting bad behavior and following the guidelines yourself, you help keep You and Me a positive place for online dating help.hinge.co help.hinge.co
Your safety and enjoyment matter to us. These Community Guidelines help everyone have better experiences on You and Me. Thank you for being part of our dating community and for treating others with respect and kindness. Let’s make each connection on You and Me meaningful and safe!
Sources: Guidelines are informed by industry best practices for online dating safety and privacy esafety.gov.au
