You and Me Dating App: Safety Tips

Meeting new people on the You and Me dating app can be exciting, but always prioritize your safety. Take time to get to know someone before sharing personal details or meeting in person, and trust your instincts at every step. Make sure to protect your account with a strong password and never log in on public or shared devices.

Online Safety Tips

Stay on the Platform. Keep all conversations within the You and Me app while you’re getting to know someone. Many apps (and sites like You and Me) have safety features and filters; don’t be rushed to move to text or email. Scammers often try to switch platforms quickly.

• Protect Personal and Financial Information. Never share sensitive details like your home address, workplace, full name, Social Security number, or financial account info with someone you just met. As Baylor University advises, “Do not share personal information” (name, phone, birthdate, etc.) until you really know the person bn.web.baylor.edu Likewise, the FBI warns to “be careful what you post … Scammers can use details shared on social media and dating sites to better understand and target you” fbi.gov If a match asks for bank details, passwords, or to wire money, that’s an immediate red flag – the U.S. Federal Trade Commission (FTC) and FBI both urge: never send money or gifts to anyone you haven’t met in person consumer.ftc.gov fbi.gov
• Verify Profiles. Look up your match’s photos and profile information online. The FBI recommends doing an image search on profile photos to see if they’ve been stolen from someone else fbi.gov Check their social media if possible – inconsistent or sparse profiles can be warning signs. Baylor experts suggest carefully vetting potential dates this way before trusting them in person bn.web.baylor.edu
• Watch for Common Scam Tactics. Be cautious if someone’s story sounds “too good to be true.” Scammers often claim to live or work abroad (e.g. “I’m in the military overseas”) and promise to visit you, then ask for money to cover travel, emergencies, or visas consumer.ftc.gov. Avoid engaging with anyone who pressures you for cash or gifts. Both FTC and FBI guidance make it clear: never agree to send money to someone you met online consumer.ftc.gov fbi.gov. If your match claims a sudden crisis and wants your help, pause and consider it a scam unless you can independently verify the situation.
• Report Suspicious Behavior.If anyone makes you uncomfortable online – by asking for money, acting aggressively, or violating You and Me’s guidelines – block and report them immediately. You and Me has reporting tools for harassment, threats, spam, or underage users. You’re not alone in this; platforms like ours rely on users to flag bad behavior so we can take action.

Meeting in Person

Always take precautions the first few times you meet a match in real life. Follow these best practices:

LGBTQ+ Considerations

You and Me welcomes people of all sexual orientations and gender identities. However, note that LGBTQ+ daters may face additional risks in some locations. Before traveling or dating internationally, check local laws and attitudes about LGBTQ+ relationships. The International Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans and Intersex Association (ILGA) provides interactive maps showing how LGBTIQ people are treated worldwide ilga.org. In areas where same-sex dating is criminalized or stigmatized, consider tightening privacy settings or even pausing your profile while there. Always follow local guidance and err on the side of caution.

Sexual Health & Consent

Safe sexual health practices and clear communication are essential in any dating scenario.

Resources for Help, Support, or Advice

Remember — even if you follow these tips, no method of risk reduction is perfect. If you have a negative experience, please know that it is not your fault and help is available. Report any incidents You and Me, and consider reaching out to one of the resources below. If you feel you are in immediate danger or need emergency assistance, call 911 (U.S. or Canada) or your local law enforcement agency.